Sunday, February 01, 2009

I Love My Pussy and I Hope You Do Too!

I was out last night with a couple friends who are just really cute and I definately would love to get into a bed with either of them but sadly they're not bi which means only the guys have a shot at them. Anyway, sometimes I kind of lack a filter about sexuality as you probably have figured out, I just talk about whatever and its fun. At some point in our discussion last night we started talking about our pussies which of course is always a great topic when you're out at a bar, surrounded by lots of horny men and women.

The conversation started out because we were talking about how we like to keep ourselves groomed down there and naturally I go bald and my friend Lissa who is a gorgeous Latina girl didn't understand what the point was. So I went into this whole thing about how much more willing people seem to be to provide oral sex to a bald pussy than a hairy one. I'm not saying that there aren't people out there who prefer the hair, there definately are but sadly they will be dissapointed with me. Lissa by the way claimed she was on the natural path with minor trimming to keep things from getting out of control and the other friend said she was more a landing strip kind of girl so this was good, we had great representation of all of the major pubic hair styling options!

Anyway, so Lissa said she wasn't sure about the whole oral sex argument so I threw out my next favorite reason which is I love how pretty much pussy looks and I love to look at it and when I masturbate which is constantly, I sometimes like to do it in front of a mirror so I can really see my pussy very clearly. By the way, I've mentioned this before but I like guys with trimmed or little pubic hair too. Not only does it make it easier for me to give blowjobs but also it really does make your cock look a lot bigger because its not having to hide behind the bushes! I'm getting off track here though, the point was that Lissa told me that she'd never seen her pussy. I was totally shocked. I'm like you mean because of all the hair and she said no, she never wanted to look at it. So of course I had to ask why, if it was embarassment or disgust or something else. This is where it comes out that she was from a very religious family and apparently even looking at yourself was considered dirty so not only had she not ever played with herself but she never really sat down and explored herself either.

I'm not going to go into a whole religion thing here because I think what people want to do or believe or whatever is up to them and if she's happy then good for her. But the point was that it got me thinking about whether or not it was a good thing that I was so sexually open about myself and so familiar and in tune with my own body and my own sexual desires and needs. You know, the question about whether or not I take things too far was the one I was asking myself. I think the answer was very possibly yes. That maybe there is a balance between never looking at your pussy and not being able to keep your hands off of it.

So I was giving all this thought to this and wondering about myself and what I finally concluded was that sure, all things are good in moderation and maybe its good to not go too crazy with things, but then again, you're only here for so long and if something doesn't hurt you or others and makes you happy then why not. I guess someone could always argue that me playing with myself hurts me or others in some way, but I think thats probably a pretty flimsy argument based on a lot of assumptions and uncorrelated conclusions.

I finally decided that sure, if it got so bad that sex was my entire life and I couldn't work or have relationships or go anywhere without having sex then maybe its time to take a step back but as long as you can function normally in society, why not have some fun when and where its appropriate to do so. We had a lot of fun of course and I went home (alone unfortunately, it was just one of those nights) got naked and hopped into bed and drifted off to sleep with my hand between my legs, gently stroking along the lips of my bald pussy and grazing my clit.